Even though this visit to Tennessee wasn't going to be like the others, going there was still about bringing dogs along too. And because when going out of town for even a few days, it helps to take two or three dogs to lighten the load on the 'left-behinder.'
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~The cats are always left-behinders~ |
For us, or me, it does take some thought to decide which dogs travel well and can go with the flow and not mind or become confused about being somewhere else for however many days -- And their loving a fun adventure is a bonus. In past years, those decisions were always easy. This time deciding who would go to Tennessee, really wasn't.
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~Daisy ~ |
After a lot of thought, I decided on Daisy. Even though when we were there in August, she seemed a little confused about why we were there - However, having Todd there did ease the anxiety I know she felt, and I thought that having Ree there with her would do the same thing. So, I'd decided that both my girls Daisy and Ree would come with me.
The day of the trip, our boy Max knew what was happening when I got out my suitcase that morning. He even stood for a long time by an empty cooler in the kitchen and watched me intently as I filled it along with a few bags of groceries.
Then as we were packing up my van in the garage, and getting Ree inside, I looked at the open door to the house, and there stood Max... He was trying to come down the steps into the garage -- something he doesn't usually do because he has never liked steps and has trouble going down them. But when Max looked at me, I knew in that moment, he was expecting (hoping?) to be taken along. I instantly felt a bit of guilt and sadness because I'd decided against taking Max because he seemed so worn out during our trip in August. At the very last minute, I changed my mind and took him instead of Daisy.
I have to add that there was also another reason for that last minute change of mind.
The next day Max was going to be 15 years old. Fifteen. A humbling milestone for any dog. Of course Max is a bit slower than he was this time last year, he doesn't see as well as he once did and he forgets/loses his way sometimes. And I don't have to say that of course we don't mind any of this for a single second. Helping Max with whatever he needs, is what we are here for.
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~Max on the night of his 15th birthday~ |
Max did so well on this trip. I'm glad I decided to take him along and celebrate his birthday with him. And because I live in the real world, at least part of the time, I know it may be our last trip and birthday together, which made and makes every day and every moment with Max one to be treasured and savored too.
You have the most love for your babies and the best heart of anyone I know. Thank you and bless you for all the love and care you give them!
ReplyDeleteI am glad Max was able to go on the trip and to celebrate his last birthday in a fun place.
ReplyDeleteTake care, enjoy your day!
Max sure worked his magic to get you to change your mind. He was determined to go with you and it sounds like you had a good time together.
ReplyDeleteHow sweet and I applaud your decision to take dear Max with you and Ree. You made his hopes and dreams come true!
ReplyDeleteHugs!
So glad you changed your mind, 15 is a good run...every good day matters!
ReplyDeleteHurray! I'm so glad dear Max was chosen to go on your trip. It's good to see a picture of the cats again, too.
ReplyDeleteAgain, bless you for all you do. Good for Max for changing your mind. Much love. (For some reason I can't add a heart.)
ReplyDeleteThey know so well what is happening, even each of our cats has when we packed or when I had to leave suddenly. Max, happy birthday.
ReplyDeleteOh yes, you are such a kind and loving person. We too are glad you decided to take Max - he knew in his heart he needed to go and you needed him to go too.
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Awww...I'm so glad you took Max and made memories with him. ♥
ReplyDeleteSo pleased that Max went with you on your trip, how could you leave such a beautiful boy behind! Perhaps he knew that this was the last chance he'd have.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday sweet Max! Going on a trip was the perfect gift. Lori
ReplyDeleteOh Kim! If only more people could "live in the real world" the way you do, it would be a far, far better, kinder place. Happy birthday Max, may each day bring you wonderful smells and delicious treats.
ReplyDeleteYou made the right, loving decision. Happy Birthday Max
ReplyDeleteSuch a lovely post and beautiful photos! Happy Birthday to Max. I am a baby boomer, and animal lover living in Montreal, Canada and this post and your blog have touched my heart.
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