We are off and running into the new year! And it is another year that begins with my hope and determination to be better at keeping this blog going and up to date.
But before going forward, I have to look back just a little. It was not the best in many ways. From losing 4 of our dogs - Lily, Milo, Marley and Max and our quirky Siamese cat Tiggy - And my oldest brother and my Father in Law.
By the time we were getting ready to turn the corner towards Labor Day in September, I was planning the memorial service for my brother in Kentucky - We were also getting ready for Carl to retire at the end of September.
Honestly, I was just not in a good place emotionally. Everyone around me knew it, even the doctor I work for knew it. He called me into his office after work one day and told me to take some time off. It wasn't a choice to work or take time off. He told me to take off as much time as I needed, and he would pay me for whatever time that would be. Dr. S, without a doubt is the best doctor I've ever worked for.
Dr. S was right of course. So, I planned a quick trip to a part of Virginia that I'd never been before, and stayed at an out of the way Airbnb (that was very reasonably priced) for a couple of days. Circa 1889, it was originally a country store that is full of charm and history. Near the small town of Tappahannock, on the Rappahannock River, and other old Virginia towns.
The area proved to be a perfect and fun place to explore, slow down and recharge. I came back feeling focused and ready for what was ahead. **The below photo is a marsh on the Rappahannock River Valley National Wildlife Refuge - Hutchinson Unit
And since I mentioned focus, the dogs of course remain my focus. Unfortunately Noodle was diagnosed with kidney disease in October. We're trying to slow down its progression with Chinese herbs, and a fresh diet. So far, he still has a good appetite and energy. I'm hopeful what we're doing will prolong Noodle's life and keep up his appetite strong too. Paws crossed!
We have also added our Lab foster girl Keira as a permanent addition to our crew. You'll recall that she is heartworm positive and has cancer. We have really grown to love our 'little chocolate girl.' It's hard not to feel that way. Keira is a gentle shy soul, that has come so far in gaining confidence and trust. Lab Rescue made her available for adoption and the thought of Keira leaving us was causing that familiar ache in my heart. 💔 Of course we know that our time with her will be limited. Our goal of course is to make whatever time that will be, be the best for her.
In a nutshell, this takes us past the holidays and into 2026. Okay, not so fast, there were celebrations too.
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| ~Our sweet and most senior boy Max~ |







We are sorry for all the loss your pack and family faced in 2025. That is a lot. We are grateful the doctor you work for is clearly a compassionate person who puts people first and you were able to take some time for you. We wish you and all you love, the best for 2026. Tigris, Styx and Lanie and their Lady
ReplyDeleteWhat a year! So much loss....but what I love about you and your husband, is the fact that you do the very best you can, to give your family and animals love and support....no matter what. Glad you were able to take a little time off and I hope Carl is enjoying his retirement. For the millionth time....thank you for all that you do! Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteMy sympathy in the loss of your big brother and dear Father-in-law as well as these sweet members of your well cared for pack who left your care in recent months. Bless your employer in offering you paid time off to have a chance to center yourself once more. It's nice Carl has retired so can offer you hugs as needed.
ReplyDeleteMay 2026 be full of kindness to everyone and every living being around the world.
Hugs!
I'm so sorry about all of your losses, and bless your employer for his support. I hope Carl enjoys his retirement, and I hope you can retire soon too. You do so much. Much love. ❤️
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year!
ReplyDeleteHope it may be a better year in many ways!
I am sorry to hear your 2025 pretty much matched ours, and happy to hear you work for a very smart, kind and generous doctor. also happy to took that time off in such a wonderful place. LOVE that store you stayed in.. my kind of place. so sorry for all the losses you went through in one year. You have a heart for old and sick pets and that is hard to do all by itself... so glad you are caring for these precious ones...
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ReplyDeleteI am sorry for all your losses, I do hope your 2026 is the best.
Your employer sounds wonderful, I hope the time away helped you to feel better.
Looks like a great place to stay and the refuge looks wonderful.
Wishing you and your family a happy and healthy New Year.